Last night i watched Dawn gets a Baby. As i have already mentioned i'm a really big fan of dawn porter, and i found last nights episode to be just as honesta nd informative as the others. Having had 3 babies though i am constantly infuriated by owmen who are ridiculously squeamish about there own bodies.
I actually had a woman telling me that she would rather opt for a cesaerean as she did'tn want her 'bits to be out of shape' ! Really i was very shocked. Why is she bothering to have children if there not even worth giving birth to? Having had 2 natural labours and normal vaginal births it really pisses me off when women say that. Do these women prance around in front of mirrors with they're legs akimbo admiring they're vaginas or something? Because unless your particularly partial to looking at yourself does it really matter if it looks a little different. I presume then that they are worried about this myth that sex after having a baby is not as good. If these women just thought even vaguely logically then they would realise that
1. if it was so awful to have children then people wouldn't have more than 1 and consequently the human race would die out.
2. Men would rather women thought that sex was worse after women have children so it gives the men more right to go and fuck someone else because the man is not recieving a tight enough pussy for his delicate needs!
Well i can honestly say that mine and my husbands sex life has only improved over the years as we've got to know each other better and having the children has often meant that we've had to stop for a few weeks at various intervals but it's never really been a very big issue to how good the sex is.
So i've dismissed the 'sex is shit after' myth as... well... shit. And as for the aesthetically pleasing side of things, i've really not noticed to much of a difference though please understand that my husband would be more of the person to ask and he's not devastated by the effects of children on my 'bits' so for now i wont seek any counselling for him.
Women are given the most amazing gift and thats to be able to grow and give birth to a new human being, so to moan about not having a super pussy anymore seems a little stupid, does it not? Respect the power of a womans body and stop fretting about issues that are irrelevant.
Tuesday, March 4, 2008
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